Infidelity brings with it a wave of pain, hopelessness and despair. Dealing with the aftermaths of an affair can be traumatic, for all the three concerned. Though we have read, seen movies, discussed with friends, tried to analyze the causes and effects, the subject continues to evoke a curiosity each time it is discussed threadbare, probably with the hope that we may be able to find a quicker and better solution to the problem.

Instead of going into the reasons why people cheat, I would like to deal with the effects this act has, on all the three people concerned. Whether you are married or in a committed relationship, infidelity evokes a similar kind of response. Lets deal with it one by one.

First of all, Show Your Best - February Blog Contest is closed. We have received 20 submissions which is less than for janyay contest but still a decent amount of wonderful blog posts. The results will be announced this Saturday, March 20.

Meanwhile you can take part in another contest here on The Colors Magazine. Tell Your Love Story writing contest. It is completely free and you all are welcome to participate and who us what you have got.

And yes, you still can vote for me over here http://nekonette.com/contest/vote.php to help me win. Thanks a ton to those who already have voted.

They say time heals all.

Does it heal the bruises of hasty decisions?
The ones that haunt you through day and night reminding you of things done and words said.

Does it heal the loss of unforgettable love?
The one which filled your life with sense and broke your heart short after.

Does it heal the confusion of tough choices?
When you know that either ways you hurt someone and they will never forgive you.

While browsing in net I came across few sites which cover same topics as The Colors Magazine. And I was pretty much surprised to read articles which tell people how to get their Ex back.
On the one hand it is not really my business if someone wants to get their Ex back. On the other hand it got me thinking. We strive our whole life to find the ONE.
No matter how often we say that it’s ok to be single and it has its own advantages.
No matter how often …

Being far away from someone you love you worry more than usual, you care more than usual, you miss more than usual. Just because unlike many other people you can’t receive it or give it any moment you want to. And because the person you need most of all when you feel down can’t be always for you there. Though you understand that it is not their fault.

You may be deceived if you trust too much,
but you will live in torment if you don’t trust enough.
-Frank Crane
Trust is a dangerous thing. And it is such a great responsibility. Trust does not only mean being true to someone even when the whole world is against them, it is not only the belief that the other person will be there for you and catch you when you fall, it is not the faith in them or knowing they won’t betray or lie or cheat. It is more than just …