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When You Miss Someone

3 November 2009 14 Comments

“Sometimes, when one person is missing,
the whole world seems depopulated.”
Lamartine

There are some days when everything falls apart.
When things go wrong.
When nothing goes your way.
When you want to cry but can’t.
When you feel lost and alone.

There are days when you miss someone you love more than you  are used to, no matter if they are just a few or few thousand miles away.

i miss you When You Miss Someone

Even having lots of good friends around on those “special” days won’t help you much. You are sure grateful to them for being there, because you know they are ready to do everything to make you feel better. But that’s exactly the case when EVERYTHING won’t be ENOUGH.

And they won’t be able to stop this desperation and frustration you are going through because they are not the reason for this.

And you will try to make yourself believe how much a good thing it is to have someone so special to miss and how nevertheless you are in their heart even if you are far away. And this thought is supposed to make you feel warm, but sometimes it just does not.

Sometimes you need more than just a thought.
Sometimes you need to hear their voice.
Sometimes you need to look into their eyes.
Sometimes you need just to lean on them, to feel they are there…

Unfortunately sometimes it is not possible.

It is interesting that you might miss someone that much even if you just have seen each other in the morning, talked on phone a minute ago or finished your chat right now. Missing someone is never about how long it has been since you have seen them last. It also isn’t related to the amount of time you spent with them lately.

Somehow it is about this very moment. Right here and right now, when you are doing something and wish that they were right there with you. But they are not.

All you want is just to share some good news with them because it will be good news for them too.
Or to share your troubles because that’s the way you can lessen your pain.
Or to share smiles and laughter because you are so much used to having them around when you are happy.
Or you just want them to dry your tears because only they can make those tears disappear.
But most of all you just want them to be there.
And you wonder if they understand what you feel, and how much you miss them.
And you wonder if they miss you at all and how much.
And you wonder if they are so close in your heart, then why this is not enough and why they seem to be so far away.

There are days when you miss someone so much that the entire world seems to be in darkness.

There are some days when everything falls apart.
When things go wrong.
When nothing goes your way.
When you want to cry but can’t.
When you feel lost and alone.

There are days when you miss someone you love more than you  are used to, no matter if they are just a few or few thousand miles away.

And on these days you want them to miss you too…

So much to Tuesday Love Ramblings this time.

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14 Comments »

  • Arv said:

    Hi Lena… I was back in the blogsville today and was just browsing around till I stumbled over here.

    Its nice to see that the Tuesday Love ramblings are still on and this one is for the classics mate :)

    loved it…

    take care… cheers…

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    The Colors Magazine

    Hi Arv :)
    It’s good to see you here after such a gap. I really thought Tuesday Love Ramblings should be a part of this site as well :)
    I am glad you liked this one :)

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    # 3 November 2009 at 2:07 pm
  • ruxeen said:

    u r such a natural writer hun…..nyc :)

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    The Colors Magazine

    Thanks, Xeenu :)

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    # 3 November 2009 at 2:29 pm
  • Amity Me said:

    Lena, I suddenly missed someone terribly!!!

    Do you write or it seems you write as if it’s a first-hand experience of yours? Just askin’ dear. You’re not comin anymore to my place lately? I missed you there, too!!!

    Really missed yah!

    :)

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    The Colors Magazine

    You know, usually it is some kind of collective experience, something I have heard, maybe read or felt, we all go through the similar phases at times :)

    I am not well these days, that’s why dont do much reading. Once I get well, I will be back to regular bloghopping :)

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    # 3 November 2009 at 6:10 pm
  • Mahesh said:

    Thats one of touching post of yours lena…:)

    i am feeling so down now because of some reason and this post makes me realize it in more pronounced manner. May be i should not have read it but reading it anyhow brings the truth to my senses. :(

    Anyways, keep writing :)

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    The Colors Magazine

    It is always better to know the truth than to live in illusion :)

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    # 4 November 2009 at 2:56 pm
  • Sourish said:

    I m listening to Mandy Moor’s ‘Cry’ now and what a post to read..great coincidence ..don’t u think…and i agree to Arv that Tuesday love ramblings are still wet I should say wettest… ( I m watching Dirty sexy money ..so can’t help using the vocabulary)

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    The Colors Magazine

    ya ya you better keep your comments clean on the Magazine, I will be watching you :P

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    # 5 November 2009 at 11:20 am
  • Ally said:

    This expressed me so much, no-one understands when you say you miss someone but they always say dont be silly or something.

    Sometimes there are days when you want to feel this way.
    When you want to be cold and dont care
    ‘I sometimes miss people when I am with them, knowing these memories will not last forever.

    Thank you soo much

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    The Colors Magazine

    Yes, I guess you are right, nobody can understand how you feel, and sometimes you dont even want to explain yourself.
    I know the feeling of missing people even when you are with them. happens to me all the time.

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    # 2 December 2009 at 1:48 am
  • shinloo said:

    “Missing someone is never about how long it has been since you have seen them last. It also isn’t related to the amount of time you spent with them lately.”

    this totally is what i feel… i didn’t know to explain these feelings of mine… and you just said it out loud like that… now i suddenly feel that no one understands me more than you do…
    siGh…
    shinloo´s last blog ..why i like it longer My ComLuv Profile

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    # 29 January 2010 at 8:16 am
  • sara said:

    This is all so true. I am missing my best friend of 10 years who has moved cross country. It is not quite like described here, not a romantic relationship but it still hurts tremendously

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    # 20 April 2011 at 6:42 am

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