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Walking Away

18 June 2009 18 Comments

walking away 225x300 Walking AwayTo all the girls who make mistakes…
To all the guys who walk out…

Sometimes we all have our questions. We seek for answers and we don’t seem to find any. Was it meant so? Should we make mistakes again and again so that we finally would realize what we are doing wrong? Do we actually realize what we are doing to people who love us? Do we know what they feel? What can we see in their eyes? What does their smile tell us? Is their heart talking to us? Do we understand? Do we feel? Do we know? Do we want to know?

Sometimes things don’t work out the way we have hoped.
Sometimes we feel lost and confused.
Sometimes we make wrong decisions.
Sometimes… we hurt…
Sometimes… we don’t know that we hurt.

And sometimes it is too late to change things.

This article is for someone… someone like you or me, someone the next door, someone you know or someone you used to know. Read it and see if you can recognize yourself here.

When she got to know you, you were there to understand her mind.
When she liked you, you reached out and touched her heart.
When she loved you, you penetrated into her soul.
When she thought she had nothing, she always had you.

You were meant to be together, fate always wanted both of you to stay forever… why are you holding back now?

Don’t we all make mistakes? Isn’t love there to teach us about forgiveness? Aren’t we here to fight for people we love? Is it so easy just to let go in order not to hurt your own ego?

She feels she is losing you. And it hurts. But more than that it hurts that you are not fighting to keep her.

Her…

The one who would rather have bad times with you, than good times with someone else.
The one who would rather be beside you in a storm, than safe and warm by herself.
The one who would rather have hard times together, than to have it easy apart.
The one who wants you to hold her heart.

FOREVER.

When she first fell in love with you, she couldn’t stand being apart with you for a week, then it was a day, and then an hour, and then a minute. Now, she can’t bear being away from you for a second. Her heart aches when you are both not together and it means it aches constantly. She longs to be with you again, she longs to feel your touch; she wants to meet your glance once again and find there the answers to all her questions. She wants to fall helplessly into your arms, and have you hold her there, close to you, forever.

She misses you a little … a little too much, a little too often, and a little more each day.

Sometimes I wonder if love is worth fighting for, but then I remember her and I have my answers.

Why are you crying now? Didn’t you know she loves you? Didn’t you know you are her life?
Just because you don’t see her tears doesn’t mean they aren’t there.
Just because she made one mistake it doesn’t mean she stopped loving you.

Once in a lifetime you become infatuated with a single soul. For this person you would do anything and not think twice about it. You will try your whole life to understand how is it possible that this person is affecting you this much, but you will never find out. And no matter what happens between you or how badly you fight … you will love this person without regret, for the rest of your life.

God made you and her and then He whispered, “Meant to be.”

But if you don’t see it now, it maybe a little bit late. Because one day you’re going to wake up and realize that you truly love her.

And she is going to be waking up next to the guy who already knew.

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18 Comments »

  • Priya Joyce said:

    u have said it all very beautifully. What I fel is..ok people make mistakes and stuffs…but when they do so they should have the courage to admit it and make things fine..Sometimes ego comes into relationships..and that’s when all gets over.

    :)

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    The Colors Magazine

    you are right, PJ, we got to control our ego so that it wouldnt ruin the beauty in our relationships :)

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  • Aniket said:

    I truly believe that no matter how big the fights go between people. The mutual respect as a human being should never be lost. Once that gets lost, its almost impossible for the scars to heal.

    I for one truly believe in Second chances… Everyone having the courage to take the first step should.

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    The Colors Magazine

    beautifully said, no relationship can work out without respect. If you dont have it no second chances will ever work.

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  • Amal Bose said:

    nice article..
    once u know that she truly loved u, never let a simple mistake or misunderstanding come in between..

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    The Colors Magazine

    absolutely… you always have a chance to clear the misunderstandings and forgive for mistakes

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  • Amity Me said:

    i can relate to your post lena.

    as of i have been there, done that and still want to experience everything all over again…

    whew…what a great post! keep on!

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    The Colors Magazine

    thanks a lot.. and i believe at some point of life we all are going through the same, thats why am writing about it!

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  • Suresh Kumar said:

    Nicely written… But practically, people find it difficult to return though they no the mistake need to be forgotten or the misunderstanding need to be resolved…. It doesn’t happen…. Thats the sad part… Many can’t return…

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    The Colors Magazine

    people always leave… sometimes they come back.. sometimes it doesnt matter anymore.. and sometimes they come back a little too late, then maybe they shouldnt leave, should they?

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  • Anna said:

    Oh Lena, I feel like a outcast here sometimes, yet I love to read that stuff, may be because I missed out on this in my life. I am from the North, lol, I was one of those cold girls that never wanted to go out with any body, lol, I just wanted to be alone - I guess I was kind of a bookworm. So again I don’t have really much to say, otherwise I will by not telling the truth. But you know I really enjoy your stories, you write with such an amazing passion about this, and seems to know a lot. Anna :)

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    The Colors Magazine

    its not, like i know a lot, i just observe a lot :P
    people are used to telling me their stories, I just make the best out of it, to make us all learn a lesson if possible :)

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  • Keshi said:

    beautiful post Lena!

    **Don’t we all make mistakes? Isn’t love there to teach us about forgiveness? Aren’t we here to fight for people we love?

    Very true. Just that MOST ppl act as if they NEVER make mistakes. Thats why they find it hard to forgive others.

    **Is it so easy just to let go in order not to hurt your own ego?

    It’s not easy to let go but it CAN be done.

    If we keep telling ourselves that we can NEVER forgive ppl, then we will NEVER. But if we BELIEVE in ourselves that we CAN forgive, then yes we CAN. :) It may take time and skill, but it is quite a possible thing to achieve.

    Lovely post Lena…I loved this one. Keep writing!

    Keshi.

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    The Colors Magazine

    I believe when we forgive someone, it is more about making yourself free. No grudges, no worries, no bad feelings. it just makes you feel better and helps in relationships too!

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  • Kartz said:

    Lovely post! And what a way to be welcomed back to your space… Lena-esque…

    And yeah - all it takes is one small misunderstanding at the most inappropriate most… :(

    Anyway, how’s ya? :)

    Peace.

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    The Colors Magazine

    Lena-esque? :P
    right, just one small misunderstanding and things are never ever the same… sad!

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  • SEO München said:

    Most of the time when the argument keeps on going, And both of you are shouting with each other we have no other choice than to walkout or sometimes you walkout because were just afraid to know the truth.

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  • Silence said:

    I am currently going through this exact thing right. Started a relationship the wrong way. Fell in love deeply, but couldn’t do what I needed for her. She fell out of love and left me in it. We still love each other, but the future that we set forth is dissapearing day by day. I want her to be happy, and she can’t with me…so, I have no other choice but to let her go, even if it means that I’ll be alone. I love her that much. Thanks for sharing this with the world. I wrote soemthing like this just today, searched for “walking away” for inspiration, and came across this. It’s a nice expression of emotions. You almost made me cry here…keep it up…

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