10 reasons why a woman said NO to you or She is just not that into you
Once upon a time you gathered all your courage and told HER about your feelings. You are friendly, loving, caring, good looking, intelligent etc etc etc. You actually could go on about your wonderful qualities and even in your worst nightmare you could not imagine her saying NO. But she said it.
And you, all that loving, caring, sweet, nice, intelligent etc etc etc have no idea why she did not fall into your arms the moment she heard those sacred words.
The reasons might be different and today we tell you about top 10 reasons why a woman says no.
1. She hates men.
She hates all men. Don’t take it personal. She really hates all men. Such women are used to get what they want no matter what, who or when. They would not bother about other people and hardly can value true feelings. If you fall for such a woman, your bad luck. Run away. She is not for you.
2. You are not rich enough
While I personally might be idealistic and believe in “money does not mean” anything, it does not actually mean that all women are like that. We like comfort and receiving gifts, we like flowers and romantic dinners, we like beach vacations and a lot (!) of beautiful clothes. All women do, just some are content with what they have, and some want more and more and more. Call it greedy, call it mean, call it stupid, but it won’t change the fact that you are not rich enough for her. Take it or leave it.
3. She is in relationship with someone else now
No comments. Just an advice. Do not ever tell her he is not good enough for her and you are better. Because she already has made her choice. Try to stay a friend if you can, or leave her (again if you can).
4. She does not want any relationship. Flirting is all she wants
Some women just like keeping distance, makes them feel safe on the one side and flatters their vanity on the other. Once she gets your heart, she loses the interest. You decide if you want to carry on. Sometimes it might work out but mostly it will not.
5. She is a bitch
Practically same as #1, but it is not like she hates men, it is more that she has fun in making them suffer. She is stubborn, unbearable, has constant mood swings and treats a man like an enemy. You know someone like that? Run away. You have fun in being tortured? Then make her realize you are the one. Guess together you will make a great couple.
6. Your pick up line sucked
Hello, I’m a thief, and I’m here to steal your heart.
Would you touch me so I can tell my friends I’ve been touched by an angel?
Baby, you must be a broom, ‘cause you just swept me off my feet.
ARE YOU SERIOUS??
The first words make impression. If you still use those above, you don’t have to wonder WHY she said NO. I guess she had all rights to.
Want to sweep her off her feet, be yourself and be original.
7. Wrong time, wrong place…
Sorry… Happens…
8. She just had a break up and does not need to get involved into a new relationship
Unless you want to be her rebound guy, back off and be patient. Try again after few weeks if she is worth it. Be a friend meanwhile. But please not best friend or “best girlfriend”. Everyone remembers “My Best Friend’s Wedding” – movie, right?
9. You are not confident enough
Women like confident men. We won’t admit it ever (and don’t tell anyone that I just did because I will deny) but we like when someone tells us what to do. Instinctively women want to be with a man, not with a kid. If you mumble something and let her always make her own decisions, most probably she will say NO, no matter how cute, sweet, loving, caring etc you are.
10. The way you look, the way you talk, the way you are
Looks matter. Intelligence matters. Manners matter.
But it is not like women want someone hot and sexy and won’t settle for anyone less than Brad Pitt or Orlando Bloom. Like someone once said a man should be only a bit more handsome than a monkey (no offence) but should take care of his body and soul.
There might be few other reasons why a woman said no to you, but just remember whatever is happening in life, happens for a reason… and maybe in your case it is better so.
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Sizzling post ther…
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The Colors Magazine Reply:
June 8th, 2009 at 5:42 pm
@ Priya:
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hehehehehehh
I so agree with first five
and heheheh
I’ve used a similar one
“Baby, you must be a broom, ‘cause you just swept me off my feet. ”
but that wasn’t the pick up line…I said it my bff and she was quicker than lightening in kicking my butt..
lol
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The Colors Magazine Reply:
June 8th, 2009 at 5:41 pm
@ Sourish:
I would love to see that picture
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LOL !!
The pick up lines…man !!
And Le, what about those men who dont understand, no means no..??
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The Colors Magazine Reply:
June 8th, 2009 at 5:41 pm
@ Cindy:
guess they somehow like the idea that a no might really be a yes. Kinda weird, na?
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:D:D very true!!
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The Colors Magazine Reply:
June 8th, 2009 at 5:39 pm
@ Kunjal:
at least someone agrees
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1. She hates men.
no ways!!
2. You are not rich enough
i am not, but i guess she wont be that types!!
3. She is in relationship with someone else now
now???
4. She does not want any relationship. Flirting is all she wants
umm…
5. She is a bitch
she isnt!!
and no girl is a bitch.. i hate to call anyone a bitch… any only girls do it or guys who use girls…
6. Your pick up line sucked
may be…but i love, and no pick up lines there!
7. Wrong time, wrong place…
ya may be… but my life is such then!!
8. She just had a break up and does not need to get involved into a new relationship
after break up she needs one… she needs someone to hold the hand!!!
9. You are not confident enough
I cant be more!!
10. The way you look, the way you talk, the way you are
ya may be… she doesnt like me… never thought of this one before readin here…. may be… food for thought!!
Thanks for the insight… may be i should give up readin this!!
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The Colors Magazine Reply:
June 8th, 2009 at 5:38 pm
@ Ankur:
somehow I am sure she wouldnt go for looks only
as regarding your reply to Cindy:
thats rather a myth that when a girl says no she rather means yes.. she actually does not. Guess the myth was spread around by men
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@Ella
and then u girls say… a no is a yes!!
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nice post man ..
funny at the apt places
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The Colors Magazine Reply:
June 8th, 2009 at 5:37 pm
@ Arnav:
really glad you liked it
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Remember when life was simpler and she was just a bitch?
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The Colors Magazine Reply:
June 8th, 2009 at 5:36 pm
@ -=A.R.N.=-:
life was simpler when she was like that? Am kinda doubting here.
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Hello Lena,
great post! what can i say? reality bites!
Keep on young lady.
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The Colors Magazine Reply:
June 9th, 2009 at 5:22 pm
@ Venelyn:
Yet it can be pleasant too 
you bet! reality bites
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@Lena
I meant the “good old days” when you didn’t have another 9 reasons to worry about.
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The Colors Magazine Reply:
June 9th, 2009 at 7:36 pm
@ -=A.R.N.=-:
ohhh…. you are lucky then if you had these “good old day”
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Hey Lena… another wonderful post..
… i am gonna need this… 
…
keep ‘em coming..
Shashi
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The Colors Magazine Reply:
August 7th, 2009 at 3:15 pm
you gonna need this? really?
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nice post..hope u wud really make some love lives better there
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The Colors Magazine Reply:
August 9th, 2009 at 11:42 am
even i hope for the same, but people never come back saying thanks for helping them out
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